The Gift of Goodbye

All structures are unstable. Life ultimately ends and so we all must face the truth that all things in connection with this life is owned by no one, not even the air you breath for it can be taken away this very second. Once the mind can conceive all structures are unstable, then we have met the birth of true enlightenment and have begun the process of ending the dependency on life.

Yes! We are so dependent of life! The very foundation of peace, it seems, is determined by events and situations and happenings in our lives. Good and bad days seem to be dictated by events and not by the peace of knowing that life happens on autopilot and freely flows towards a metaphysical destination orchestrated by God, meaning a bad and good day [and your stress] is structured SOLELY through the error of your perception and not by what's happening. What's happening? Exactly what's suppose to happen. What's happening? The is-ness of life.

Where you are right now God circled on a map for you. Something you can't change. An awesome way to plan for the future is to place all energy into the moment at hand. Should we plan and aim for something great? Yes, of course because humanity cannot operate without time; however, never let a goal dictate the totality of being; of who you are… you're more than a goal, you ARE life.

So, say good-bye to your dependency on the structures in life. Eliminate the tags your place on people, the judgment you render, the criticisms you invoke.

Say good-bye to those relationship you hold on to. Guess what? You're the only one holding on. It's been over for a while now. It's o.k. to let it go.

Say good-bye to self-hate. Who cares that you don't like your nose? Your feet? Your weight? Your height? No matter what you think of yourself the thought is not who your are, good or bad, you're worth much more than any adjective. Any descriptive word. Any label. Investigate the more and less will be alleviated.

Say good-bye to identifying. The best way to find the truth in life is to leave it nameless.

Know this: whatever you call it. That's not what it is. "The finger pointing to the moon, is not the moon." What you believe is, is NOT and is much deeper than you can ever fathom.

Furthermore, say good-bye to your bad days, change your perception. Look at the day as a necessary place in this chapter of your life. Don't perceive the day as bad, know the day is God's.